Sunday, January 18, 2009

Passive aggressive...

A long overdue post, but lately I've been a bit scared to write since it is quite a big gamble considering the erratic thoughts that I am having. As usual music is a good catalyst to motivate me to write, it provides a frame of thought that I can stick to, that I can see and try to bring out my thoughts in a way. However I know that my mind is not in its more stable form, thus this my go horribly wrong but I should try...
Passive aggressive is one of those terms that has always fascinated me, like all terms that seem to contradict themselves, at least at the first glance. The funny thing is have you ever checked what does passive aggressive means? I mean we all have our idea of what it means but do you really know? Well this is a good change to use wiki technology...

Passive-aggressive behavior refers to passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to following through with expectations in interpersonal or occupational situations. It can manifest itself as learned helplessness, procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, sullenness, or deliberate/repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible. It is a defense mechanism, and (more often than not) only partly conscious. For example a worker asked to organize a meeting might happily agree, but will then take so long on each task in the process and offer excuses such as calls not being returned or that the computer is too slow, that things aren't ready when the meeting is due to start. A colleague is forced to hurriedly complete the task, or the meeting is postponed.

Surprised? Perhaps not but yet this is something that is more present than we realize, even in ourselves... There is a song that I listen just when I was at almost breaking point in university, and just heard it again and well here it is this post... Anyways don't want to write anymore sorry for that, tomorrow I'll start a schedule of posting, simply because some things need to be posted so that they don't seem irrelevant...

It's in your reach
Concentrate
It's in your reach
Concentrate
If you deny this
Then it's your fault
That God's in crisis
He's over

It's in your reach
Concentrate
It's in your reach
Concentrate
If you deny this
Then it's your fault
That God's in Crisis
He's over

Every time I rise I see you falling
Can you find me space inside your bleeding heart
Every time I rise I see you falling
Can you find me space, find me space

It's in your reach
Concentrate
It's in your reach
Concentrate
If you deny this
Then it's your fault
That God's in Crisis
He's over

Every time I rise I see you falling
Can you find me space inside your bleeding heart
Every time I rise I see you falling
Can you find me space inside your bleeding heart
It falls apart
It falls apart
Falls apart

Every time I rise I see you falling
Can you find me space inside your bleeding heart
Every time I rise I see you falling
Can you find me space inside your bleeding heart
It falls apart
It falls apart
Falls apart


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